Wife Own’s My Balls Now! PT2I was not proud to admit it, but I had really lost interest in my wife ten years into our marriage. We had dated for three years before getting married. Sex life was perfect those days, blowjobs anytime I wanted, frequent, almost daily sex. Lots of different positions, exploring kinks together. Really everything a man could ask for. Then we got married, I changed my job to one that paid much better but was significantly more stressful. We had a baby, bought a house, started chasing the American dream. Sex life gradually dwindled to once a week missionary sex. I was not happy and tried to talk to wife. She claimed this is what happens in a stable marriage and my expectations are “unrealistic”. Every time we talked it resulted in an argument. I was not happy but had no idea how to change it. I also developed an embarrassing problem of premature ejaculation. I could only last for a minute inside her, even less if she got on top. I could see she would be disappointed each time I orgasmed quickly, but she never brought it up directly. In my mind I blamed the whole thing on infrequent sex.Then a really hot girl Ruby joined my office. I had taken up classic car restoration as a hobby. I found out Ruby and her boyfriend were major enthusiasts. I would often go to their place and work on cars with both of them.What I did not tell my wife was that Ruby broke up with her boyfriend soon afterwards, he moved out and I kept going to Ruby’s garage and spending a lot of time together. Ruby vented to me about her boyfriend, I vented to her about the lack of affection and sex in my marriage. One late evening, the friendship turned into an affair. We kissed, she gave me a wonderful blowjob. I felt guilty but on top of the world.As it always happens, I soon got caught. Ruby had sent me a nude selfie and I was masturbating to it. Wife came home early from work, saw me naked masturbating to Ruby’s nudes. *******************”So your husband has expressed his frustration regarding sex. Tell me what you feel about it?” We were both sitting in front of Cindy – the marriage counselor. Cindy had really good reviews – both from men and women. It is rare to find someone that is liked equally well by both sides. Plus men posted in reviews that she is sex positive and talks the wife into frequent sex. So I agreed to see her, despite my personal reservations. In the previous session, I had made it clear that while I regret güvenilir bahis the cheating, it was totally due to my sexual frustration and it would never have happened otherwise. Wifey was crying but I had decided not to hold back.”Can I be frank?””Yes of course dear this is safe space.””I find sex disappointing. He is done before I can even warm up.” Wifey said, looking down at her feet.I could not believe what I was hearing. I knew I had a problem with premature ejaculation but to lay the blame solely on that and to almost belittle me in front of this woman got me really upset. “Do you agree?”I controlled myself. “I sometimes cum too quickly yes but it is due to infrequent sex. I used to be better when we had more. I get backed up and then cum quickly. “”OK I want you to try an experiment for 6 months. With this method, I have seen great success in couples like you.””What?” “What?” we both ask at same time.She addresses my wife. “You will have intercourse with him every day. In return he will ask permission before he can orgasm.”Now I chime in. “Why would I do that?””Sex gets over when a guy cums. You need to ask if your woman is satisfied before you orgasm. Keeping her happy will get you back into her pants quickly. “”What if she says no?””Then you take a break, cool down, start again. If she is not ready for you to orgasm, you continue the intercourse and ask permission again.””Am I allowed to masturbate?””Technically you are allowed but you still must ask permission before you can orgasm. That is the only rule for you really. Most men choose not to masturbate but it is upto you.”We talk for a bit and it seems like a good solution. Cindy then wants to talk with me alone. She tells me that I should ask for sex every day. If wife disagrees let Cindy know and she will talk to her. The rule regarding no orgasm without permission is strict and if I fail that, she cannot help me.Then Cindy talks to wife alone for a long time, not sure what they say but the wife comes out beaming.**************************************Later that night, I decide to test the waters. I ask for sex. Wife says yes but says “Remember to ask, when you are close, can I cum?”Within a minute, I feel the pressure and ask her permission. She says yes and I cum. This goes on for about two weeks. Every day I ask for sex, and within a minute or two ask permission to cum. I always get an enthusiastic yes and I cum. I am thinking my timing would improve türkçe bahis but it stays pretty bad. I do not care too much, I am following the rules of the game, having sex often and enjoying my orgasms. I start thinking maybe it takes a while for the timing to improve.On 3rd week, when we have sex again and I ask “Can I cum?” wife says “No. Take a break, cool down and start again.” I am surprised but I do as asked. In another two minutes, I end up asking permission again and this time I get approval. Gradually as the weeks progressed, I start getting more denials and by end of week 6, I am having to ask 5-6 times before I get to cum. I am still happy with daily sex but I am now having to work for an orgasm. She seems to be enjoying our sex more. I could swear each time she says no I can feel her pussy spasm around my cock. On week 12 we are almost at the midpoint of the trial. It is a Saturday night. We fuck for about 30 minutes. After denying me about 10 times, wife says “You are not allowed to cum today. Take it out.” I pout but she reminds me of the rules, I cannot cum unless she agrees. “The rules are daily sex, not daily orgasm. You have to wait till I approve. I am not approving one today.”Next evening, I ask for sex again. Same thing happens again, I am told “not yet” 10 times and then asked to withdraw.I feel I am getting horny as hell and sex is on my mind now 24/7. I desperately want to masturbate myself to an orgasm but I have given my word for the six-month trial so I think I have to keep my end of the bargain. I only have 3 more months to go and it has been a good deal for me so far. Till this weekend. Plus, I really start enjoying the high; the almost teenager like euphoria.I struggle to concentrate at work on Monday. Wife calls me at work and asks me how my cock was doing. We had not done any naughty talk in years and I find myself very turned on. I tell her I cannot stop thinking about our last night together and I have been hard all day. I cannot wait to get home that night.I pick up flowers on my way home, another thing I had not done in years, and wife is delighted to see that. Before I could ask for sex, wife says she will let me cum tonight as long as we can have a nice romantic dinner first. We setup a candlelight dinner, I put on nice music, set table etc. I go all out to make her happy. I feel like we are dating again. It is as if I am chasing her, trying to get into her pants for the first güvenilir bahis siteleri time and putting an effort into seducing her. I try not to appear too eager. I let her lead as to when she will be ready.Then she asks me to go down on her. She never much liked oral sex so I am surprised but I comply. I find her totally wet even before I start. She cums within a minute. Her whole body shudders and she is panting. Soon she recovers her breath and asks me to fuck her. I find myself giddy with anticipation as I enter her. Almost as if we are having sex for the first time. I feel the urge to cum quickly. I ask her, receive an approval and I cum like crazy. It triggers her second orgasm as well. I cannot remember last time we had a simultaneous orgasm.We keep having sex every day but slowly my orgasms become rarer. I wait a week on one occasion, then 10 days after that. She keeps it unpredictable enough, so sometimes it is just a day or two of wait. I really start enjoying her orgasms, I start focusing on them and she is soon cumming twice or thrice each session. She starts squirting, something she had not done even when we were dating. I assume making her orgasm means I get to cum sooner. So I put more effort into eating her out first. We grow closer together. I start getting frequent blowjobs again, sans happy ending of course. Everything is back on table, the only thing she now holds the key is my orgasms. We cannot keep our hands off each other like newlyweds. I feel myself giddy with anticipation each day as I come home. I never know if she is going to let me cum but I cannot wait every day to try. ************************************”So how was the experiment?” Cindy asks. She already knows the answer. We are both beaming, sitting close to each other. Wife actually blushes a bit. Cindy says “That is a good sign. How long has it been for him?” I wonder how much of this was actually planned. “He is on day 12 today.” My wife says. “He is spending over 20 minutes inside me each day. I have had more orgasms in last three months than past five years. I fix his next orgasm date like you asked. But if he is sweeter I might give him sooner…or I might not, I love to see him all riled up. As you said, I felt guilty denying him initially, he will pout but his reaction tells me he loves it when I say no. It feels so powerful to use his cock for my pleasure. And then push him away when I am satisfied.” I start to get hard when I realize what they are saying. “His orgasms are not denied dear, just rationed. I bet he would not want to go back to the earlier times. Do you?””Heck no. She plays me like a fiddle, I am in her clutches and I could not be happier.”